For a married person the spouse is his/her destiny.
Be not a warrior by using your spouse as a target to
shoot the arrow of your wrong beliefs; create not
a hell around you by hurting the emotions of your
spouse and by filling your life with bitterness and loneliness.
Be a musician and treat your spouse as a flute; fill in the flute
with the breathe of love; enjoy the songs of love that prevail
in your life. Sri Rama created heaven for others, but himself
lived in hell alone suffering the consequences of breaking the
heart of his spouse; whereas Shri Krishna proved that
symphathetic treatment and respect for women can
create heaven around a loving spouse .
By Vani Hegde.